Are you willing to shift your way of thinking to create wealth, abundance, and success and live the rewarding life you desire? In other words, do you have the motivation and enthusiasm to change your beliefs about money and success?
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if everyone could live in Fairy-Tale castles and each had more than enough money to maintain a lavish lifestyle?
Perhaps, you live in a castle and your life is already perfect, but the odds are that this is not the case. Instead, you probably keep wishing you could create wealth and abundance or that it would just show up in your life. (I bet today or tomorrow would be just fine!)
What blocks your receiving wealth, abundance, and success?
Could you be caught in a continuous loop of hoping and wishing for more money but not manifesting what you need and want? To make it simple, what is stopping you from receiving the desires of your heart?
Unfortunately, the reality for the majority of people in the world is the experience of a lack of money and a feeling of poverty. Even people with money sometimes feel that they do not have enough. Finding the key to a happy life evades both rich and poor because we hold beliefs about health, wealth, love, and self-expression that limit us from receiving what we need and want.
Each of us has a personal reaction to and interaction with money.
Many of us would love to buy more clothes, purchase the latest technology, a new car, own our own home, and travel. Therefore, we find it frustrating to not be able to participate in the abundance dream. As a result, many people have developed an angry and desperate relationship with money.
As one middle-aged man with a delightful French accent expressed humorously,
“I once had a relationship with money. She was very good to me. But we broke up. She left me!”
Too often, the money leaves us. Money flies out the window, and we find our relationship with wealth is strained, if not broken. Consequently, riches elude us and no matter how hard we try, we don’t seem to build a lasting relationship.
Many of us have built a confused idea of abundance.
We may think money is outside of us, that it is limited and hard to get. We believe that wealth can only be earned through many hours of hard work. Yet, others live well on passive incomes. The wealthy hold large savings and investments and can travel and spend their resources easily. What is the difference? What can you do to participate in the dream? What can you do to create wealth?
Money is frozen green energy.
Money is simply a medium of exchange. It is frozen green energy that takes the form of dollar bills, plastic cards, and numbers in a computer. Money is not a mystery, yet most people never seem to have enough.
Why are people stopped from participating in the great dream of flowing money and super success? Throughout our lives and due to a variety of events, we develop beliefs that define our relationship to receiving money. We may have lost jobs and experienced investment losses. We may have borrowed against a future time when we hoped to be more financially secure with loans and credit cards. As a result, too many of us are deeply in debt.
The question is: How can we end the struggle and change our beliefs about money and success?
The answer: We must change the beliefs that no longer serve us so we can create success in our lives. Over the years, we all gathered beliefs. What do I mean when I speak of beliefs?
First of all, a belief is a group of words in a sentence that we believe is true. The beliefs we collect become the dictators of our minds and run our lives. They are the filters through which we see the world. As a result of collecting and absorbing a huge variety of beliefs, we actually hold hundreds of opposing beliefs that conflict with each other and cause turbulence in our minds, emotions, relationships, and events in our lives.
Negative Beliefs vs. Positive Affirmations for Money and Success:
- “If I were rich, I would have to pay higher taxes.” vs “Rich people make more money and therefore they can afford to pay higher taxes.”
- “Rich people often are liked only for their money.” vs “My friends and family will love me for myself.”
- “I couldn’t be spiritual if I were rich. vs “I can be spiritual and donate money for good purposes.”
- “Wealthy people have big egos.” vs. “I will stay humble and remember that all people are important.”
- “Successful people have good luck and the right connections.” vs. “I have the talent and ability to be successful!”
Look closely. Do you have conflicting beliefs that are creating havoc in your life?
Through counseling with hundreds of people, I determined that we each develop a variety of sub-personalities who are the parts of us that become the keepers of our beliefs. That is to say, their job is to prove that the beliefs we hold are true. These parts of us, the keepers of our beliefs, become the magnet (the frequency match) for that particular concept to show up in our lives.
An example might be if I believed that rich people are greedy and only care about themselves, I most likely would only meet or see in a movie rich people who appear selfish and greedy.
If I believed that people of a different race were dangerous, there is a good chance that I would meet or at least see news that verified that those people are dangerous.
I am not saying it always happens, but there is a high probability that your belief would help to create that manifestation. And, If you found that the rich person you see is generous and caring, and the person of the other race is kind and loving, you would very likely be very surprised and might not believe it is true.
Above all, these keepers of our beliefs filter our activities and interactions with other people to guarantee continuous verification of those beliefs. For instance, you could hold a belief that people don’t like you. Your belief keeper‘s job is to be sure that most people you meet don’t like you. Thus, you might develop the type of behavior that makes you even less likable.
Each keeper of your beliefs thinks they are helping you. They are certain that the beliefs they guard and work hard to prove are helpful, valid, and true!
Why should what we believe make any difference in our lives?
Each belief serves as a powerful magnetic force. This magnetic force organizes patterns of thought, which attract the conditions, people, and experiences that correspond with that belief. Therefore, those magnetic patterns (beliefs) influence our decisions regarding actions, interactions, and behavior. Therefore, beliefs dictate the type of events you experience and the people you meet.
Negative beliefs limit your power to create wealth, abundance, and success in your life.
The key to freedom is to understand what a limiting belief is doing for you. If you comprehend the purpose of the belief, you can eliminate continuous disappointments and detours. Therefore, it is extremely important to be aware of the negative beliefs you are holding and learn what they are trying to do for you.
My books and Whole Life Consulting sessions are designed to help you discover what your sub-personalities are trying to do for you by stopping your ability to create wealth and abundance. We then integrate that part of you into your whole being so that you can have your full power.
You can learn to integrate the opposing forces within you and thus create a unified wholeness within your being. You can regain your full power and be all you can be!
I will be doing an online course on the Infusion Integration Process but in the meantime…
Contact me for a Free 15-Minute Chat on Zoom to see if you’re ready to begin your Journey to Wholeness…
Perhaps it is time for you to transform your life. It is never too early or too late to understand how you create your reality with your beliefs, generating your thoughts, which activate your emotions that lead to actions that become your life.
I would love to help you release the past and create a future that is truly made up of the Desires of Your Heart! To set up a fifteen-minute chat, email VerlaineC@CreativeLifeAdventures.com
Verlaine Crawford is an Author, Transformational Coach, and Inspirational Speaker. She was invited to teach personal growth and spiritual awareness worldwide. She is the author of four best-selling books and publisher of two by John Teressi: See Books to Enhance Your Life. Verlaine’s bio click here and at www.VerlaineCrawford.com.
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