Ending the Battle Within? What does that mean to you and your ability to create a successful life?
There is an old adage that says:
You are Captain of Your Ship,
Master of your Fate!
That sounds great!
But I see it as a Pirate Ship,
and the crew is planning mutiny!
What is the battle within you? The battle begins when parts of you are ready to attack another ship, other parts want to go to an island and rest, and others just want to go home.
The Conflict Within You Is the Continuous Argument in Your Head.
The argument is when a part of you thinks you should be doing something that is more fun, and another part of you says you aren’t working hard enough.
The battle is when a part of you stops your finances or attacks your health. Or perhaps one part wants to keep your relationship, and another wants to end it.
So, where does this battle within you originate? You start collecting beliefs. It begins in your formative years and continues throughout your life. What are beliefs? They are words that affect your perception and understanding of life. Beliefs are the seeds that become the people and events that come into your experience. Some simple yet powerful beliefs are:
- People don’t like me.
- If you go out in the rain, you’ll catch a cold.
- It is difficult to make money.
- Don’t talk to strangers.
- I can’t do the work I want because _______
- No one loves me.
And so many more!
Our beliefs are creative, energetic tools for bringing people and events into our lives. We can manifest what we fear or desire. We magnetize fearful events with fearful beliefs. Positive, joyful beliefs magnetize positive, delightful events.
Beliefs Are the Seeds that Magnetize and Manifest Your Life Experiences!
We are amidst a global change in our weather patterns, the world economy, personal relationships, education, careers, ideologies, and culture. To move courageously through these changes, we must learn to stay balanced and evaluate what beliefs dictate our lives.
Take a look at what you believe about life. Which beliefs are moving you forward, and which beliefs are stopping you from fulfilling your destiny? What are you thinking and doing with your time and energy?
You Are A Natural Creator and Manifestor of Life Experiences
Yes, you are indeed a natural creator and manifestor. How do you create your personal reality? You manifest with your beliefs: words put into sentences that become ingrained into your mind as truth. You have collected various opposing beliefs from family, friends, school, work, and the media. These eclectic beliefs generate your thoughts, which activate your emotions. Your emotions lead to actions and reactions that create your life!
Who You Are Not…
► You are not your physical body, although you help manifest and maintain your physicality. The body is a wondrous, sophisticated, intricate energetic, electromagnetic system.
► Your mind seems to be who you are, but the mind operates with stored beliefs, memories, and programs you have collected, similar to a computer.
► You are not your thoughts or emotions because they are simply reactions to your programmed beliefs and memories.
So, If You Are Not Your Body, Mind, or Emotions, Who Are You?
You are a glorious Spiritual, Being of Light. You are a Soul Essence, having a human experience.
Now you might answer: “That is a very outrageous description of a human being!” How can humans be so vulnerable, so flawed, and seemingly not with the program (pun intended) if we are the description you dare to write!”
My answer is that we have forgotten who we are and can be. As a result, we have lost touch with the powerful Meta-Universal Consciousness that is the energetic pattern-maker of All That Is.
We have forgotten that we are co-creators of our personal reality.
Most people are unaware that we are creating the stories we call our lives.
Our Beliefs Are the Seeds of Every Storyline
Like the seeds of every plant and tree, each of our beliefs is a seed to create an event, relationship, career, activity, and experience in our life. Our beliefs are the roots out of which our life grows. Each belief serves as a focal point from which we view the world.
You may have noticed that people contain many personas, like an actor playing many roles. These multiple personas store their version of the world through beliefs, patterns, and programs. Their job is to prove that the belief they hold is true. I call these sub-personalities the “Keepers of our beliefs.”
The words of every belief they hold form a pattern that magnetizes the representation of that belief in physical and emotional form. And, almost always, there is an opposing belief held by another part of our being. The sub-personalities, who gather the most proof from the world that their beliefs are true, become the dominant creators of your life.
Examples of beliefs:
– All good men are married or buried. (From my Mom)
Opposite…There are many wonderful men and women available for relationships.
– It isn’t easy to become rich.
Opposite…Wealth comes easily.
– I am weak and sickly.
Or opposite…I am strong and healthy.
– The world is full of corruption.
Or opposite…There are many truthful and moral people with compassion.
As you can see, these beliefs are in direct opposition to each other. It is interesting to note that you can hold both beliefs simultaneously. That is where the battle begins inside of you, and the dominant belief usually rules your behavior.
So You Have Beliefs…What Is The Problem With That?
There is nothing wrong with having beliefs that serve you well and make your life flow easily and joyfully. But too often, that is not the case. The negative beliefs that stop you from manifesting health, wealth, love, or self-expression hinder a successful, joyful, loving life.
Your sub-personalities that hold negative core beliefs are normally trying to protect you. They magnetize scenarios for you to prove over and over again that they are correct in their belief. Therefore, these overprotective beliefs continue to generate thoughts that make you see the world as difficult, upsetting, dangerous, and overwhelming, thus paralyzing your ability to accomplish your goals and move easily.
The actions and words of the people we meet represent the parts you don’t want to hear or see inside of you. Often, the words said or actions taken against you make you feel fearful, angry, frustrated, sad, jealous or insulted. Those emotions lead to your actions and reactions that create your identity and personal reality.
Your core beliefs about events, relationships, health, wealth, and self-expression are the catalysts for the energetic creation of your interaction with the world around you.
How Do You Know What You Believe?
Look at the life you have created!
Look at your home, your relationships, your job, and your interactions with people. If your days are full of chaos, you probably are holding beliefs about having upsetting people around you and lots of chaotic experiences.
Perhaps you believe you are too young or old to do anything worthwhile. Or maybe a lack of a college degree makes you think you can’t get a good job. How can you possibly change that belief if it has been proven to you over and over again?
You Can Change and Bring Together Opposing Beliefs to Experience Your Full Power…
Unfortunately, negative beliefs are undermining your power and potential. It is interesting to note that the sub-personalities that hold these limiting beliefs always think they are helping you. Therefore, you can change and integrate what appears to be a negative belief when you learn what it is doing FOR YOU,
The Infusion Integration Technique can help reverse the belief so that you can create a new reality in which that belief is no longer true in your life. You will not magnetize the people or events that represent that belief. I know because the integration technique has brought me and my clients’ peace of mind and freedom to prosper more easily.
To help you change your life for the better, I can take you through the process of the Infusion Integration Technique and help your sub-personalities to look at the world differently.
Contact me for a Free 15-Minute Chat With Me to End The Battle Within!
Perhaps it is time for you to transform your life. It is never too early or too late to understand how you create your reality with your beliefs, generating your thoughts, which activate your emotions that lead to actions that become your life.
Therefore, I would love to help you release the past and create a future that is truly made up of the Desires of Your Heart! To set up a fifteen-minute chat, email VerlaineC@CreativeLifeAdventures.com
Verlaine Crawford is an Author, Transformational Coach, and Inspirational Speaker. By invitation, Verlaine taught personal growth and spiritual awareness in Japan, Hong Kong, Australia, Bali, France, Italy, and across the U.S. She is the author of four best-selling books and the publisher of two by John Teressi: See Books to Enhance Your Life. Verlaine’s bio click here and at www.VerlaineCrawford.com.
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