by Verlaine Crawford and Endorsed by Louise Hay
Many battles are being played out on the world stage. Wars have been fought between nations for centuries. Yet, the most difficult war to end is the battle within our minds. Many of us have thoughts that conflict, negative beliefs, and blocks to receiving running inside our heads. The question is, How can we end the interior battles that cost us time and money because we can’t focus on what we want to accomplish? Wouldn’t it be wonderful if there were a way of Ending the Battle Within?
For example, I remember my mind was incredibly noisy when I was in the midst of my divorce in the late 1990s. I kept hearing persistent, conflicting, constant conversations about what he said, she said, and they said, followed up with “Why has this happened to me.”
All my sub-personalities were crazed in their upset, confusion, and sadness. Parts of me showed me the negative beliefs they were holding onto. I had temporarily forgotten my process for Ending the Battle Within my mind, even though I had used the technique many times on myself and clients. I call it The Infusion Integration Technique.
How Did I Find the Answer to Ending the Battle Within?
The short version of my story of learning about metaphysics happened when I was twenty-two, I learned that our beliefs generate thoughts that activate emotions, leading to actions, which create our reality. I received this information from a man I met in an elevator who told me his story of learning that lesson. He showed me the results of his making a list and writing a date for his desires to become reality. Then, he gave me the book, As A Man Thinketh by James Allen and told me to make a list.
So, I made a crazy list in March. I wrote that I would be modeling in a month and appear on TV a month after that. (I didn’t even own a TV). The next item was to be living at the beach in an apartment I could afford, and the last request was to drive an XKE Jaguar on my birthday in December.
Everything happened before the date on my list. As a result, I told all my friends and everyone I met to make a list. Amazing things happened for many of them, but their list didn’t manifest fully for a few. The list stopped short or happened partially. I studied all sorts of possible reasons and went to classes to understand what was missing. Some people appeared to have blocks to receive what they needed and wanted.
You May Have Heard of The Secret and The Law of Attraction
Perhaps you have learned the concept that Your Thoughts Create Your Reality. You may have made a list with the date and have probably repeated positive affirmations. You may practice mindfulness, meditation, breathing exercises, and other ways to relax your mind.
Why Isn’t Your List of Intentions and Desires Manifesting Fully?
Why do you still have an internal battle and blocks to receive inside your head? Are you questioning your ability to become a conscious creator of what you need and desire?
The answer may rest in a misunderstanding of who you are. For instance, you may have heard the poem Invictus by WILLIAM ERNEST HENLEY. The last two sentences that I heard were:
“I am Captain of my ship
and Master of my fate.”
I see the vessel as a pirate ship, and the crew is planning mutiny!
Who Are the Crew, and Why Are They Planning Mutiny?
You may be surprised to consider that you are not one person or persona. You have many sub-personalities. Your crew on the pirate shop is made up of different parts of you who have been adopted throughout your lifetime.
These personas exhibit different emotions as actors on your stage of life. They take turns appearing at work, home, a party, a sporting event, etc. Some just hide out and find ways to undermine your activities if they don’t correspond to what they believe is true or safe for you. These parts of you are the keepers of your beliefs. And they are waging interior battles inside your head.
Therefore, when two sub-personalities fight over the validity of their specific beliefs, a psychological, internal battle occurs. Each part of you thinks it is helping you. Even when they stop you from experiencing one or more of the Four Cornerstones of Life: Health, Wealth, Love, and Self-Expression. Their belief is sacred to them, and their rather negative belief is considered protecting you.
As a result, opposing sub-personalities argue create confusion about nearly every aspect of your life. Negative beliefs may affect your lifestyle, diet, exercise, career, relationships, art, other types of self-expression, and more.
Where Did You Get Your Beliefs?
You developed concepts and beliefs about people, politics, the law, medicine, work, events, and the world from your parents, siblings, friends, enemies, the media, film, etc. The beliefs you have adopted act as seeds that generate your thoughts and opposing beliefs battle for supremacy.
In this internal battle, the strongest belief takes charge and filters your perception of what is happening to you and your vision of the world around you. Those perceptions lead to thoughts that generate emotions that influence your decisions, which lead to actions that create your life.
How Do You Know What You Believe?
You can figure out what you believe by looking at your current life. Observing your health, home, relationships, and financial status reveals what you believed in the past that created your current reality, like a bio-feedback system.
In my coaching sessions, I use the Infusion Integration Technique, which quickly integrates the parts of you who are fighting interior battles about their opposing beliefs. Our beliefs appear crystallized in our brains and are held in consciousness. Therefore, as we integrate (bring together) the opposing beliefs and the advantages of both points of view, the crystals melt, and we end the battle within.
I am currently in the process of updating the book, Ending the Battle Within and will be doing an online course to teach the Infusion Integration Technique. The book is still available in paperback form on Amazon. The book’s information and techniques will help change how you see yourself and the world around you.
If you wish to experience the Integration technique and begin Ending the Battle Within, I will be happy to set up a Zoom session with you. I can help you clear away old memories, integrate opposing beliefs, and release blocks to receiving. Send a note to my email. You will learn how to create your desires by integrating all parts of you. As a result, you will gain greater focus and activate your full manifesting power!
Louise Hay Endorsed Ending the Battle Within
It was my good fortune that a friend of mine knew Louise Hay. She asked Louise if it would be okay to send her my book for an endorsement. Time went by, and I had not heard from Louise. I needed the endorsement so a large distributor would place my book on their list. The time was 1994, and there was no Amazon. I self-published at a print shop and purchased 2500 books, which was quite a large expenditure in those days.
Finally, I called Louise. She had read the book but hadn’t had time to reply. She responded that there was some confusion around the book’s setup and suggested that I rearrange the chapters to make the book match the movement of my workshops. I stayed up for twenty-four hours rearranging the chapters and sent her the new version of the book. I am eternally grateful that she immediately faxed me this marvelous endorsement.
“The concepts within the book, Ending the Battle Within How to Create a Harmonious Life Working with Your Sub-Personalities will change how you see yourself and the world around you. You will learn that you can create your desires by integrating all parts of you to gain your full power!
“We all know how hard it is to change our negative patterns, mainly because we do not know what is inside us that needs changing. Verlaine Crawford has come up with a simple, but most effective way of learning who really dwells within us.
“There are far more sub-personalities than we are aware of. Her Infusion Integration Technique helps us make peace with them once and for all. Verlaine is living proof that her process can turn lives around as she continues to expand the boundaries of her own life.
“Students in America and around the world are benefiting from her workshops. This book is a must-read for all who are serious about changing their lives for the better. This will also be the most fun growth experience you have ever had.
I wish Verlaine had written this book years ago when I was beginning my own journey.”
– Louise Hay, author of You Can Heal Your Life
Ending the Battle Within is available on Amazon.com.
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What a brilliant distillation of how complex our sub-personalities can interfere with our true desires. Thank you for sharing your simple process and I look forward to experiencing my dreams without allowing those blocks to deter me.
I am so grateful to have you as my coach!
And what a great honor that Louise Hay had the chance to experience your book!
Thank you, Marjorie, it makes me very happy to be able to work with you. Yes, Louise was a delightful woman. She came to a party I had at my home, High Castle in Idyllwild. It was the first time we had met in person. Also, we had a fun time sharing time in Italy with Power Places Tours. I have lots of stories to tell!